The same thing, said differently
You have a conversation ahead of you, and you know the first sentence counts. Here you work it out — in your words, in a few minutes.
- No AI — every question comes from a fixed rule
- No account, no cookies
- Nothing is stored, not on the server either
Try it on one sentence
Write it the way you would say it. The simulator reads along — before you select anything.
2 notes: “always” is a generalisation. “disrespectful” is a judgement, not observable behaviour.
When did you last notice it? Name that one occasion.
What exactly was said or done?
My phone was on the table; you opened the messages.
What is it about for you?
What happens in between
You write it the way it comes to you. The simulator reads along and asks back — at the places that predictably lead into defence.
- You describe the occasion. What happened, not what the person is like.
- You say what it does to you. In the I-form — nobody can dispute that.
- You name a request. Concrete enough that both of you can tell afterwards whether it was met.
You write the sentences. The simulator asks the question back and shows examples as a yardstick — it does not phrase things for you.
It does not work on you. It works on your sentences.
Orientation, not a promise
- Not therapy, not mediation, not counselling.
- Not a push-button conflict solver — you hold the conversation.
- Not a guide to winning. This is about effect, not about being right.
- No account, no sign-up, no cookies.
- No AI. Fixed rules that sit in the source.
- Your sentences are computed and then discarded.
Where there is violence or a threat, a prepared conversation is the wrong instrument. Find support.